Thanks all for your encouragement and the reality check. I guess he really isn't ready to give her up, at the moment anyway. In fact, I think he has started redirecting his mail away from my address so it doesn;t seem he is on his way home soon.
I just don't know how to feel whole again without him although I know it's what I have to do.


Me: 39, H: 37
Married 12 yrs
EA 01/07, bomb 07/07.
He moved out 09/07. Lived alone for some time, moved in with OW in 2009, moved out again Mar 2010
S:8
D:11