Kerry, Thank you for the link to the articles on infidelity you posted on my thread today. They are helpful. I've had a difficult time dealing with H's EA/PA. From reading your sitch, you are also dealing with OP. You've done a great job detaching, taking care of your children and taking care of yourself. Your W is showing some positive signs. Keep doing what you've been doing.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
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