On MC or Retrouvaille? On the MC front, he didn't say, though he has said previously that he needs some individual counseling under his belt before he'd feel ready for MC again.

Regarding Retrouvaille, I was surprised that he said he'd take a look at it. As I said, I wasn't posing it as a question to see if he'd go. I just wanted him to know it was an option and a much lower cost option that most of the others I found last fall. While I'm an atheist now, I was raised in a church and have really explored my faith (or lack thereof) and my options. My husband's mother hates religion and definitely has passed along her distrust of religion in general to her son. I told him that I would be able to tune out the Catholicism because I've done that my whole life (raised protestant in an Irish/Italian Catholic neighborhood of Chicago), but wondered if he could. He said he'd look at it and think about it.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.