Husband's Mid-Life Crisis

[addie]

I am sorry that you are here but you have come to the right place if you are hoping to try to save your M.

I really don't know what to do to save this marriage at this point. I know my family would be very upset with me if I took him back but he is the love of my life & I am having a hard time giving him up plus I realize it is a mid-life crisis & that's why I hope I could forgive him.

You have to figure out what YOU want. Families and friends mean well. They see you hurting and want your pain to end and they think the only way that will happen is by ending the cause of the pain.
First get the book Divorce Remedy. There is a wealth of information on things you can do to save your M. Some things you should NOT do are pursue H, cry, beg, plead. These things will push him further into the arms of OW. Try to detach from your H but be pleasant when around him. Read as many posts on this board as you can - you will learn a lot from people who are in a very similar sitch.