If you really want to fix this, then get him to go with you to a Retrouvaille weekend. Go to the website, http://www.helpourmarriage.org, and read every bit of it. Find a weekend near you, and get him to commit to going. You can do it. But there's no magic potion. It's taking the time to spend time together and talk about your feelings. They will teach you how to heal your marriage. They can lead you step by step. All you have to do is go there with an open mind and a willing heart.
