Quoting lostlove:
apparently you have two love languages...because it's obvious that physical touch is one of them and h is NOT filling that part of your tank...you also speak of h's lack of "talking" to you...perhaps that's another??


You are very insightful LL. I have only just begun to figure out our Love Languages and you are right about mine. I think my H's is Acts of Service. He does so much for me yet feels so unappreciated when I still complain about being unhappy. I will just have to learn to listen to his love language better and maybe that would make me feel better.

So how to you balance the differences in your love languages LL?

Thanks. You have been of help and it is good to know that I am not alone in this. The funny thing about this is that although I am the HD W in my M by the standards of some of the HD spouses who have been posting I would probably be considered the LD spouse.
LH