My H went to his second individual counseling session today. The C said that we have to improve our communication regardless of where our relationship goes and suggested that we try MC again. H told her our attempt at MC was horrible and that it actually drove us apart instead of bringing us together. She suggested that we try MC again, but with a focus on learning to communicate better. That it was totally OK if I go in with the idea that this will help get us back together and he goes in with the idea that it will help us split more amicably.
I don't know how I feel about this. Anyone care to chime in?
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09