Question:

Do i look weak letting her do this waiting for her to make the next move? Pressuring me into moving out, Her moving out and trying to take kids.

w made the comment that om knows what he wants in life and no one will tell him different.
Im pushing on focusing on kids and myself. If i left right now i doubt s8 would get homework done. Not that she hasnt done it before but she is preoccupied.

Just thinking out loud: sleeping pill may be kicking in:

What can i do to help save my m?
Filing-bad
staying in rut connected to a rollercoaster-bad
moving out with the risk of coustadylater-bad

What can i do different?
seperate finances-good not that there is any $ left after pd
cancel some cable to reduce bill- good dont watch most of those stations anyway
stop contributing to 401k temp- good $50 paycheck
not renew cell phone plan when it comes up- good able to quit any time
fix wall where we took out cubboards- good needs to be done

I dont even need to talk to her and she is miserable im in the house with her. I think this is her prob, she should pretend im not here and see if thats what she wants. So upset im here but "im going to take a shower"

ENOUGH
time for bed
light switch


Me 37 W 37
D21 D17 D12 S8
grandparents 7/07 boy
Married 16 yrs last June 07
Bomb dropped 4/07

"Do what you feel in your heart to be right-for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't", Eleanor Roosevelt