Please listen to Enlighten. Don't ask those questions. It will make things worse. You cannot reason with an irrational person.
The man you were married to is dead and gone. The man you are trying to reason with now is a complete stranger.
Let him go. Drop the rope. Focus on the beauty inside of you. It's there. Cultivate it. And maybe someday when he realizes how beautiful you are, inside and out, he will not be able to resist. That's how you get him back. And if he's too far gone, that will be how you attract the love of another. By focusing on yourself, you have nothing to lose...everything to gain.
Bomb
Me: 51 W: 50 M 24 yrs EA: since Apr 06 S22, S26, S28 ILYBNILWY:Nov 07
"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything." Tyler Durden