Thank you so much for offering to "talk." I posted on the newcomers' forum under "please help with next step." I'm still working on that next step and hopefully, I'll be able to post an update soon.
I'm no expert but if I were in your shoes, I wouldn't talk to H again about this touchy subject. I'd leave it for now and see what happens in the next few days. I was wondering if you've read DB or DR? It'd probably help you with techniques to approach bumps in your marriage. I wish I had read these books way before my situation got this bad.
