"Many of them have to do an internal housecleaning of their demons before they can return."

Let me give you an example of this, I think.

H texted me lastnight and said:
"Believe me, God has taught me that you cannot go against His will. It's all an illusion."

Snodderly is right, they have to do an internal housecleaning and it takes time due to a tremendous amount of guilt, etc.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19