annie,

I have two kids the exact same age as yours. Mine are two girls.

I've been at this alot longer and it changes annie but it stays the same too. In other words, your feelings change, your kids feelings change............but the WAW's don't seem to. Atleast in my situation, my Ex is still selfish, it's still all about him, and it's been six years.

Keep that motto, it's a good one.............time helps annie, it really does, just hang in there. And remember sometimes we just can't fix some things, and that's ok.