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Re: Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain MissH #1367877 02/26/08 02:14 AM
Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 7,345 New England inmyplace Member
inmyplace Member Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 7,345 New England	MrsH, I understand, but it doesn't say anything about you. Your H made a choice. Just keep thinking that you are the prize and leave it at that. Has nothing to do with him. has nothing to do with her. It has everything to do with how you choose to see yourself. IMP

Re: Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain inmyplace #1367881 02/26/08 02:18 AM
Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 5,375 NY M MissH OP Member
OP MissH Member M Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 5,375 NY	This is why I am hoping to find a counselor soon, so I can get back my self worth. Me:35, ex: 36 Sons: 9 & 7 Bomb: July, 2006 Divorced 2009

Re: Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain inmyplace #1367883 02/26/08 02:19 AM
Joined: Aug 2006 Posts: 4,738 Maine A a new 2moro Member
a new 2moro Member A Joined: Aug 2006 Posts: 4,738 Maine	BINGO IMP! Mrs h he said it so much more eloquently than i could but hes right...you judge your worth by what he thinks of you...uhmmmm who the f---k gave him the right to pass judgement on you???? Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest

Re: Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain a new 2moro #1367885 02/26/08 02:20 AM
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a new 2moro Member A Joined: Aug 2006 Posts: 4,738 Maine	you do and demand thru your L h pay for it. Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest

Re: Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain MissH #1367887 02/26/08 02:21 AM
Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 7,345 New England inmyplace Member
inmyplace Member Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 7,345 New England	Now, that is a good plan, MrsH. At a certain time, I realized that the I had fall in love with the most important person in my life...me! And MrsH, I do see signs that you will get there. keep moving forward. IMP

Re: Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain a new 2moro #1367888 02/26/08 02:23 AM
Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 5,375 NY M MissH OP Member
OP MissH Member M Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 5,375 NY	Quote: you judge your worth by what he thinks of you... Your right. Everyone else in my life thinks I am a wonderful, loving person but him. And who do I tend to listen to? Him. I guess because he was the most important person in my life, he was my best friend. All of these people who think I am wonderful think he is an a$$hole. Even most of his family and (old)friends say it. Me:35, ex: 36 Sons: 9 & 7 Bomb: July, 2006 Divorced 2009

Re: Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain MissH #1367890 02/26/08 02:25 AM
Joined: Aug 2006 Posts: 4,738 Maine A a new 2moro Member
a new 2moro Member A Joined: Aug 2006 Posts: 4,738 Maine	well by virtue of his own stupidity he gave up that role dont cha think????? Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest

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