Quoting AchingMan:
Also, what is a crisis for one person or relationship may be just fine for another


A 'crisis' happens when one partner feels his/her spouse does not love them back in the same passion that we still hold for them. We all want to be desirable to our spouses the way we desire them and when the LD partners are not even interested in being interested, unwilling to even try, then worse still, the LD partners feel unloved, uncherished and that leads to other marital problems like an A for example.