think about that drawing your son made last fall about the broken heart, think about how he said this was the best v-day ever cos he was with you. there is no doubt these children see as the stable force in the lives, the one they can count on. you would walk into a speeding train for them.....whats a brainless twit and his brainless sidekick.....yup she has your h....the sloppy a$$ed seconds of a man unrecognizable to most of you. a man incapable of real feelings EVEN towards his own children, a man who cant deal with life, a man incapable of being in a relationship, a man you really want this man.....let her have him. after the D when he sees it didnt give him the happiness and relief he thought it would he will turn on her....hes running. you have a choice to be stable and have those kids and make a better life. we pray he will catch up but please dont wait for him any longer. YOU are too valuable
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Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
because the stupid a$$ed alien gave all the things he didnt like about himself a face....yours. his loathing of you is really his loathing of himself
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
Mrs. H, His thought pattern HAS changed...for the worse. Right along with my H's. Mine went from I don't want to be married anymore, not sure if I was ever cut out for marriage, let's be friends, I will come to you with my problems and we will work on solving them together...to Ok, now I have OW, don't need you, don't want you, can't manipulate you, so I won't have anything to do with you. Sound familiar? Reminds me of fair weather friends I had in Junior High/High School.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
Patty, our H's are a few of the stubborn ones, eh?
I just wish that the tables would turn a bit. I wish he would start to see the ow in a negative light and me as a positive light.
Maybe our H's feel like they don't deserve us? Although my H says that he deserves so much better than me because I never really loved him and the ow does.
I wish he would start to see the ow in a negative light and me as a positive light.
MrsH, you need to see yourself in a positive light first. And it has nothing to do with what he does. It has to do with what you do. I know it takes time, but you can do it.
yes that is it.....hes like a child with theirs ears covered yelling nananananana....trying not to hear the real voices...
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
IMP,a lot of the time I feel like "screw him, I am the prize here." But then there are other times where my self-esteem has taken such a hit that I start to believe some of the horrible things he has said about me. He left me for a loser, so what does that say about me kind of thing.
he left you for a looser because deep down that is all he feels worthy of...but IMP is right your h will never see you in dif light until you do. you came along way but you havent made that real step up to the plate...when you do your h will notice.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
