Mrs. H, His thought pattern HAS changed...for the worse. Right along with my H's. Mine went from I don't want to be married anymore, not sure if I was ever cut out for marriage, let's be friends, I will come to you with my problems and we will work on solving them together...to Ok, now I have OW, don't need you, don't want you, can't manipulate you, so I won't have anything to do with you. Sound familiar? Reminds me of fair weather friends I had in Junior High/High School.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
