Stella, I'm reading your posts and trying to think of something you could try that would help. I can't come up with much I'm afraid however I agree with my fellow Canadians in that you shouldn't go dark. I think you shouldn't call him unless its very important but with the way he is going dark wouldn't help your sitch.
Sorry, I hope someone who has more experience in this DBing might be able to help more.
((((HUGS)))) Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*