LL, You are right on about the fact that you store fat when you breastfeed. In addition it makes you so hungry you have to eat all the time to fuel up then you can't go on a diet!
I haven't tried to make any advances as whenever we spoke about it it was quite clear that H was not keen. It was not so much the sex that I missed but the total lack of any sensual kissing which drove me absolutely crazy from longing and yearning for H. Very recently, I broke down completely one morning and ranted about how miserable I felt. Stressed H up so much just before leaving for work, something which I should not have done. H made up the next morning by ending the drought. I wonder how to make sure things don't go back to the way it was. I suppose I shall just try to continue to work on a being a loving W. This forum will be the place where I shall rant, rave and vent so I won't be a grouch and a nag to H and I shall try to give H a peaceful home and continue to be patient and understanding. LH
