Quote: So I certainly don't blame him for this state but what I am unhappy about is his unwillingness to talk about it.
sometimes in talking about it..we simply add another stress to their plate...
I hear the same things from my h..under alot of pressure...etc..
doesn't make it easier on me but I do try to understand as you have.
so then what are some things that are working??
I know from experience that mothering a child and breast feeding do not lend oneself to feel attractive and "sexy" but there are still ways...perhaps some new clothes? contrary to what so many tell you about breast feeding helping you to loose the pregnancy weight sooner...that's a load...sure your uterous will shrink sooner due to the oxytocin kicked out but in the end breast feeding tends to make your body store extra fats just incase...weight really shouldn't be an issue but it can make you feel unattractive and when we feel unattractive we don't really project something to be desired..so then what to do??
does h reject you when/if you make an advance toward him?
