JOnNee, I'm glad that you found the book helpful and I'm not surprised that things slide back. You see, when you put energy into your marriage and really focus on doing what works, things work!! When you stop, and put your marriage/sex on the back burner, guess what happens? It stops working. In the same way that you'd never expect a car to keep running on one tank of gasoline, you need to keep refueling your marriage. Sounds as if you were both "guilty" of letting things slide. We all do that from time to time. But what separates the winners from the losers isn't the number of setbacks, its the efficiency with which we get back on track. I love that your wife laughed when you suggested re-reading the book. A sense of humor is necessary for staying on track. So good for you. You know what you need to do. Now do it! Just do it! Michele
