I think he has to go through this part. It has brought movement , which in my opinion, you guys need. Now it is going to get a little tougher but you are strong enough to do it.
I do not think you are emotionally shut down. I think you are very AWARE of what is going on with H and are not acting out on your emotions.
I personally think that is great.
Just keep being you and the great mom you are. Tell your D's this is something daddy has to do.
You know all of the process i think you are going to be better than ok. Hugs to you, my dear.
