Nate - what are you going to do to help yourself STOP being miserable??
I kind of like the funeral idea, too. Either jokingly with your buddies, or more seriously - write her a eulogy and say goodbye! It really did help me when my H was moved out to think through "What if he had died suddenly, what would I be doing to grieve and move on?"
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
