My W's BD is this Thursday and we will both go to an Egyptian night at S7's school so we cant go out to dinner like she had wanted to (free buffet on bd). I am wondering what I should get her?

I had asked my mom for a suggestion and she said to offer her a trip to Vegas with myself if she comes back to me. I had to explain to my mom that would be too controlling and I would need to have a lot of time to rebuild the trust in my M before I go galloping off to Vegas with the woman that has torn my heart apart.

I just spoke with W about whether she was working again as a waitress this Fri. I asked because I needed to confirm if I would need to take care of the kids again, but I forgot that I have them anyway this Fri-Wed. W said that she will probably not work as she would like to make plans on her own to celebrate her BD (I assume with OM). I hurt a little knowing that someone else will be celebrating my W's birthday with her. I will just need to make my time with the kids enjoyable and get my mind off what my W has planned.