Something I learned that helped me with my anxiety and fears, came from a minister at my church.
It was breathing, and it was a prayer. Breathing in, " Lord, help me to do" breathing out, " only what is right and good."
It got me through alot. It still gets me through to the next point.
For me, it reminds me that all I can control is myself. I can do what is right and good. I can react to everything in a way that is right and good, and I have no regrets. Peace is much easier to achieve with this as a guide.
Bless you Mrs. H.
It will be better than the heck you have lived through the last 2 years.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.