Listen.. you and I are in similar spots and you need to play it cool. Stop suggesting the little slumber parties. If she wants you to sleep over she will ask.
I learned from Jody today that we are in STAGE 2 - FRIENDSHIP. If we are cool and play it right, we will make it to STAGE 3 - ROMANCE. That's the promised land baby. That's where all of the action starts.
HOWEVER - If we play it wrong, we risk a trip back to STAGE 1 - ANGER.
After months of pain and hard work do not risk going back to STAGE 1.
We are going to rise from this sh*t like a phoenix!
