My thread has been hijacked multiple times. That's cool, we are all in this together. Someday I will host a DB reunion at my place. We can all wear our name tags ... BT, Hound, Fish, Ellis, Minkerman, etc.
Update...
Called the lawyer today to tell him that the divorce is on hold and W and I are working on our marriage. He was thrilled! Really nice guy who was very worried about my child. I told him to hold off on calling W's attorney, time to give this thing of ours a little air. I was following Ws lead... she did tell me to call.
I sent W a text letting her know that I reached out to my lawyer, I did not ask her anything.
She said great and then invited me out to dinner tomorrow night. Naturally I accepted.
Had a coaching call with Jody today, she is awesome. She told me that W and I have made it through the worst stage - Stage 1 - Anger. We are now in stage 2 - friendship and must be VERY careful not to bypass this phase. It is time to rebuild all of the wonderful feelings that we have for each other with no pressure. - Go to dinner, play tennis & golf, go for runs... enjoy each other. Avoid sex in this stage... Make out and fondling ok - no sex!
Looking forward to phase 3 - Romance. That's when things get real fun. Definitely not going to rush through that phase. Really looking forward to phase 3.
Phase 4 - Reconciliation - Time to head back home.
