Ah Weedhopper... you seek wisdom from fellow DBers, but like the Salmon, you continue to swim upstream and we all know how that journey will end.
First -- Hound is the absolute DB King. In my opinion, nobody does it better. This guy was a fast learner. I will never forget when he told his wife that it was perfectly fine for her to go to Chippendales while he watches the kids. Wow!
Mink is also a quick read. He is moving his sitch in record time.
Me... I am just persistent. After countless arguments, threats of alimony, a divorce filing and a few court appearances, I just keep saying to myself.. I am not getting divorced.
There is also amazing chemistry and sexual energy between my wife and I. It is on hold right now... but the anticipation is very exciting.
BT - YOU ARE IN STAGE 1 - ANGER - The only way out of this maze is by giving your wife space. STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM HER. You must let her cool off.
This sh*t takes time, patience and persistence. You must also focus on what works for you and what does not work for you. Every sitch is different.
