Or was I the only one that actually did it several times while reading it.
MrsH!
It is going to be OK! Your going to work yourself into a state of panick! This is why you seem to get sick to easily. Don't worry hon.....it wil be OK!
I'll box you up some warm sunshine
HUGS
Jeanette
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
Don't get freaked out, I have been through it to the end and you know what?! Nothing has changed, everything is pretty much the same. The only thing I think about from time to time is what if H married OW now. I am not really prepared for that but if it happens I will deal with it. I am not going to borrow trouble. I don't think he will marry her to be honest.
Breathe and relax, like BND said.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
Mrs. H, I'm praying that a settlement can be reached, but going to trial isn't that bad either. This all could be a bluffing tactic to get you to settle w/whatever they send over. Your h's lawyer knows exactly what he's doing. Don't panic. We'll be here to bring you down off the ceiling.
Let your lawyer do the work and all of the worrying and you sit down, prop your feet up and take care of yourself. No judge in his/her right mind is going to take kindly to the way your h has been w/the boys and visitation schedules.
Please take care of yoursef.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
I don't know why I am so nervous, it's my H is the one who should be nervous. All of his horrible behavior will come out on the stand.
My mother thinks maybe this might be the thing to wake him up, but I am not counting on it. I thought a lot of things would wake him up, but yet he is still on the fast track to divorce.
I really hope my L is right when she said that my H's L is going to do whatever it takes to avoid trial because he is not a trial lawyer.
I had a hearing somewhat similiar to a trial. My xh couldn't remember my correct age, date of birth or the street we lived on. He couldn't even begin to tell them when he left and why. I had to have all of my documentation available for review, etc.
I don't know what a trial would entail in your state, but I would ask your lawyer the next time you speak with her. Each state is different.
You are first on my prayer chain and will stay there for a while.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
