I might have been telling my H at times that I wanted out, but really I just needed the "high" of hearing that he wanted me.
Your wife seems just as immature as I was in those days.
Just throwing it out there....
Good grief, I'll catch it. Since my MLC, I realized how I thrived on that same kind of crap back then. So she's got a point, Frank. Although your wife is clueless that's she's doing it at this stage.
Ok, fair enough. I'm not sure where I would be considered saying to her 'I want you' in any of this. I will add that as the conversation went on I DID tell her we could talk to D12 whenever she wanted to if it was that important to HER. She declined to do it last night.
I still don't understand the 'noticing' I have lost weight last night. It seemed flirty, or at the least more than normal 'friendly'.
Anyway, on a different topic, I asked D17 if the reason she asked me to help her cook last night was because she was mad at W. She said that she saw that W was busy yet again, and just didn't want to deal with her so she asked me to help her. She needed help because she didn't know how to make this dish.
I reminded her that she needs to ASK her mom, not ASSUME she didn't want to help.