H with MLC

[2ndnoah]

What a weekend......My H freaked out this weekend. He and I had emailed each other 6 times on Thursday. No, nothing sweet, not even how are you and the boys. It was all business. Saying stuff like....We need to get together to go over the bills, I need to pick up my stuff, the divorce and filing.....bla, bla, bla....crap like that.

He called me on my cell that same evening. I did not get his call. My cell was dead. The next morning on the way to work, my battery was charged and I got his voice mail. I emailed him when I got to work Friday morning, asking what he needed. I did not hear anything from him the entire day. That evening while we were home eating dinner, H cut the gate chain and lock, came busting into our home (yes, my boys and a friend of theirs was there to spend the night). H was furious, saying he is sick of no one ever returning his calls and emails, bla, bla, bla. It was not a pretty sight. He was pale and bug-eyed and very, very angry. I told him I would not talk to him about this in front of the boys and we would have to take this outside.

He has not seen our boys in a month. He did not even say anything to them. SAD. After 2 hours in his car, talking I gave up trying to understand him or reason with him. He was listening to nothing I said and still doesn't. He told me we were getting ready to loose our house because his job was cutting his overtime. I laughed.

He has been keeping his overtime. I do not use it to pay our bills. In 5 months he has taken $12,000 in overtime and savings. I told him it looked like cutting the overtime was going to cramp his style, not mine. He told me he could not live with his mom forever, and I replied.....should have thought of that when you walked out.

I asked him was he now trying to tell me that he was going to cut the money off??? YELP!!!! Because, all this time I could have not paid the bills, allowed his credit rating to be ruined and taken the money and played like he has with his overtime.

How selfish can he be???? 1st, he has up-root our family, taken my H, me and the boys security and stability, our family unity, the boys father, our self-esteem, confidence, etc. and now he wants to take the roof over our heads and the groceries???? What in the Hel is he thinking.

I told him just because he woke up one day and said....I'm not happy, I've had the same woman for 31 years and I want to trade her in on a new one....that wasn't enough now, now he wanted to talk everything else. I want, I want, I want. It's all about him!!!! He is the most selfish SOB in the world. I do not know this man....

I told him....I was done being nice. I had been nice up to this point. The best thing he could do was get an attorney, file and have me served. This D was going to be a blood bath and to get ready. HE IGNORED ME! I told him 5 times, and nothing. I'm talking to a brick wall.

Today, emails me saying he got the tag for the truck he is driving. SOOOOOOO. Then emailed me again saying, we needed to get together to talk about the bills. WHAT????? WHAT???? WHAT??? Didn't I tell him to get an attorney and file. It's an ALIEN, I swear IT is!!!!