BND, ofcourse I wouldn't give this guy a 2nd chance if I just met him. I'd have to wonder what was wrong with him acting like this. BUT, this IS my H and how do I just pretend he isn't? I don't know. I'm trying though, please believe me.
dar or brandnew, could I get Amy's email addy from either of you? dont' know how to go about it since the personal msgs are unabled on this site, thanks! if this thread locks I'm over in piecing.
cat- Drop me an email (address in my profile) and I'll send you Amy's email address!
whatever good man your H was, he is on vacation, this is a new person with his own agenda in which only he, himself and *i* are on it.
I remember quivering from day to day, reading a lot into anything my H did, either good or bad. I read on this depression book that a sign of being an enabler is if you defined your R depending on your spouses' mood "he looks serious, he wants out!" or "he called me honey, he loves me again!".
Lower your expectations to 0.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
Did you think I gave up on the dieting BND? H*LL NO! This is the longest I've been able to do this so far and my mind is VERY set and this. I'm happy with the 16lbs, but know it could be soooo much better if I can start scheduling exercise in it as well. This is all just from cutting my calories to normal and eating well.
