Jen, I am sorry that he wants to through with D, but I agree that there are many positive moments, like he really trusts you and cares for you and D and noticed and liked the changes in you. Baby steps!
And you couldn't have been any better, you are doing it right, keep going.
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08