My L finally called me back. Turns out that her secretary walked out on her today. The secretary also never gave her any of the messages I left.

My L said the new court date is March 6th. She said that his L has a counter proposal ready to fax over. My L said "well that's fine, but we need time to view it so we need to move the court date to a later date."

She said that if we don't come to an agreement by the 6th, the judge will set a trial date on that date.

I don't want to go to trial.

My L said his L is not going to want to go to trial.

When I told her how he is not following the visitation rules, that he wouldn't give the boys back to me last weekend and he brought S6 out in the snow while he had strep throat, she wasn't too happy. I said "he does not respect me as their mother."

She said "I don't think he is capable of respecting anyone."

She told me she is going to call up his L and ask "what is the point of sending over a proposal agreement if your client can't follow the rules." She said that his L is not going to be too happy with him and his probably going to "scold" him.

I can't believe he thinks life with me was so bad that he sees it necessary to go through all of this.


Me:35, ex: 36
Sons: 9 & 7
Bomb: July, 2006
Divorced 2009