Ah yes, it's tough when they are in the same house. Are you better with or without her there?
Good question - on one side I get the chance to show support and friendship, but on the other I'm in the crosshairs when she's had a bad day at work. Living as roommates isn't exactly reigniting any romance, but I think it does make her remember what we've invested in each other and that it won't be so easy to walk away.
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Remember what my H said to me when I asked him if we could try? He said 'I thought that's what we've been doing' and I said 'just that fact you're here means you're trying?'
Good point - I guess I do recognize that she's trying in her own way.
We don't have S - I was using S for separated. OM is a coworker and she's working on a big project with him, but it hasn't been that long ago that she said she was still attracted to him. I think she's going through a withdrawal period, though.
Luckily she has a good friend to turn to right there in her own house.
