LOL, Mea. The #1 thing I have learned is that as much as I wanted to understand my H and restore the marriage, I had to prevent myself from getting sucked into his drama. It is an amazing feeling to know you can get through the awful parts of life without compromising your integrity. There is no substitute, and I do feel compassion for MLCers because they are so busy trying to escape on some level, that they are blinded to this simple truth.
Life is good!!!
Amen to that!!! Theres nothing I can add to that, it says it all!