Well, I cant even believe it is true, but my H has come back to me again for another swing at things.
He came over for lunch last friday (and I purposely looked really hot) because he just wanted to catch up with me. We had absolutely no R talk, just small talk. Then later I told him I was going out car shopping and He said he would walk the dog during that time.
Later he text me while I was shopping and he said: "Can I buy you dinner?". After I had earlier sensed that he was kindof being really nice, I said "sure- where & when". I ended up meeting him at the resturant that we both had worked at for our first jobs ever (how romantic). It was a terrific weekend and I am so excited.
We spent the entire last 3 days together and he really seems to want to make this work. He is even being very understanding that I want to take things really slow. We decided that we would just date each other at first and that he wont move back in until I am ready. He will stay on the couch during the weekends so we can still go out and ride safely home together. But his lease isn't up until May 1st on his apt. and I would like him to wait a while before he just walks right back in my door.
I do fear that he is not out of this crisis yet completely and that he may slip away again - because this is all a complete repeat of the first time he left & returned so far. Also, I have a feeling that he has come back most specifically because he may have felt that I was moving on entirely way to fast and easily with out him (I created lots of mystery).
Any advice would be appreciated. and I will return to tell more tommorow, but in a rush right now. TIPPER
