Nate - agreed, that was really fast! I wouldn't read too much into what it means - you'll drive yourself crazy and you'll never know. I would say be grateful it happened now instead of 5 years from now, though. I know that's hard to hear but you really are better off. Thank goodness you two didn't have kids together.
I know this is all still very new for you, too, but definitely work on detaching.
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I also am bothered by the fact that she treats me like someone that she hates.
You think that roughly an hour delay in getting a text reply (and a polite "Thanks" at that) is treating you like someone she hates??
That's ALL about you and very little (if at all) about her.
She is treating you like someone she's no longer in a romantic R with, but I'd say that's far from treating you like someone she hates.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread