Sorry for the delay in replying - my schedule is usually very busy/hectic, and I couldn't get logged in last Friday when I tried to check up on you.
I live in a small town called Sugar Grove, but work in Naperville.
Stay positive if you can. I know NC is very hard, but as hard as it may be to believe, it can help in the long run. It's hard to believe this though at the time, because you want to be with them and make it work, and you'll find yourself questioning how this can work. It's a normal feeling. We all go through it and question it at times until we finally see little things that tell is it is maybe working.
Just remember, although you may still want H in your life, you can survive without him!! Show him that side of you, and as I said before, be happy around him if h does come around, but don't let him get you upset/angry/argue with him.
You can do it!!
Need2Believe
Me: 45 H: 49 Married - 21 years SD from H 1st M - 30 S - 14 S - 11 Asked for D - 8/14/06 Found out about OW - 8/30/06 Moved out 10/14/06 Moved back in 4/1/07
