Mine never thought I'd physically hurt him although he made weird references to deserving getting hurt (i.e. "it would serve me right if [XYZ bad thing] happened."
He definitely thought I was going to hurt him financially and become vindictive in that way.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread