Email from H this morning:

"I am glad you called last night to share the pain, rather than to have to deal with it yourself.

I need to be responsible/accountable for my actions, so as much as it hurt, it was good that you called to let me know what was going on. Also, I do still think of you as a friend/confidant though we are not together on a daily basis.

I'm going to try to sit and chat with {D6} on Wednesday and reiterate to her that she should always feel free to tell me what she is thinking/feeling."


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.