"I am glad you called last night to share the pain, rather than to have to deal with it yourself.
I need to be responsible/accountable for my actions, so as much as it hurt, it was good that you called to let me know what was going on. Also, I do still think of you as a friend/confidant though we are not together on a daily basis.
I'm going to try to sit and chat with {D6} on Wednesday and reiterate to her that she should always feel free to tell me what she is thinking/feeling."
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09