Finding my way out of the dark

[glamgirl]

This is always a difficult situation. I have been at this for almost 2 years now. I have always taken the road lately of letting h contact me. Not that I don't want to call or talk with him and show my concern and love I just think it's best.

Many times he doesn't answer or return the call and has even said you called me for that. Hmmmm I guess he didn't want to hear from me, so I try to stay my distance.

When I am around him I try to have the love of Christ shine through me.

My h I believe is severely depressed and finds himself sitting in a dark room, so the calls from me may not be welcoming.

Each h will respond differently, but that is my advice. Giving my h his space to find himself and then hopefully he can find his way back home.

You can always try one approach and change if you don't get the desired result. That is what I had to do, trial and error.