Sadly - if your wife truly has borderline personality disorder the prognosis is not good.
I can't agree with this. There are many people with BPD who have healthy happy lives. Not everyone with BPD is low functioning.
I agree with sg. As you have to take it day by day with someone with BPD. In the end you do what you feel is best for everyone but I don't think you should give up just because your W has been diagnosed with BPD.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*