Kim, Wow. I know it was hard. But I read your previous post, about how your H just didn't seem to "hear your" complaints with him and the M, and the racing, and the same answer came to me ... to tell him about the A. That is the only way for him to truly realize how unhappy you are.
No, you shouldn't have gone to see OM, but I see why you did. And now everything is out in the open. They say everything happens for a reason...
You're right that your H is going through a lot of emotions right now. Give him some space.
