Well, you know, everyone else can jump in here with what they think, but here's my opinion:
What would a friend do?
One of Michele's articles here on the site consists of a letter from this guy who stayed friends with his WAW through the divorce and aftermath. I'm thinking that just trying to remain friendly and helpful right now might be a pretty good goal. I know that's going to be hard considering all the stuff he's done, and you don't have to be a doormat either. But it's going to be a lot easier to get through this mess if you have a friendly vs. an adversarial relationship.
But that's just my opinion.
Me: 51 W: 50 M 24 yrs EA: since Apr 06 S22, S26, S28 ILYBNILWY:Nov 07
"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything." Tyler Durden