Please help...need MLC advice

[tpaschal]

Bomb,

Thanks for the male perspective. As for the rush, he doesn't think it's a rush. And actually, according to Texas law, it's not. We could have been divorced long ago except that he's a procrastinator and I haven't been doing ANYTHING to help move things along.

But if he asks for an expedited trial date, the judge is likely to look at it, see that D papers were served in June, and grant the request.

I did let my L know, and they are working on my behalf to get the info. I will need and slow things down as much as possible, but there's only so much they can do.

I know OW has been pushing, and I think he's getting tired of not being able to "openly date" even though she is living with him and they do go out in public anyway, but I'm starting to wonder if she's pregnant or something?

Guess my L needs to schedule a deposition from her to find out....


Would love some advice from you on whether or not to let him stay at the house this weekend! Some of my friends say, NO WAY, but they don't understand DB'ing, or even why I want to DB.

Would it be good DB'ing to allow him to stay here? Or would it be me being a doormat?

I'm confused!