Wow - Kim and 25 years - I have printed out your posts, very good stuff! This is what I try to explain when I say avoid GAL with the "manic face". I did that - grinned like a loon, pretended I was sooooooooo happy, didn't fool H for a second.
It was only when I started to feel better about myself, that I REALLY focussed on me, when I enjoyed life without worrying about what H was thinking, that things changed.
Hats off to you, Kim & 25 Years
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.