Said he doesn't know how to break up with her because if he does he has to pay her back all the money that she put into his music and he doesn't have it. ... Any ideas anyone?
"has to"?
what, did he sign loan documents and offer collateral to her? I'm guessing not.
if that is truely is "only reason" (which it probably isnt, but...)
he does not "have to" pay her back. Besides which... she's his manager. She got her "percentage" out of it. And musicians change managers all the time, when their manager doesnt mesh with what they want to do. If "what he wants to do" is be with his family and look after them... seems like his path is fairly clear.
if he raises the issue of "well, i feel morally obligated to..." I think she forfeited any right to be treated morally well, after she deliberately shows her own LACK and CONTEMPT OF morals, by specifically going after a married man, and trying to knowingly destroy your family.
The email she sent you, is perfect demonstration of that. How about you print it out, frame it, and any time he makes any kind of "moral indebtedness" claim about her, show it to him.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle