Each and every one of the LBS's here have heard that their WAS definately wants a Divorce.Some actually go ahead and file, but not everyone here ends up in Divorce court.
Mine did. Said he was 100% sure, he told me he never loved me. D was supposed to be final in November. He told me when it came right down to it, he couldn't do it. I went months without talking to him and he came to that conclusion all on his own.
Let him miss you. I hate to say this, but once you start working on yourself....you may find yourself happier without him...especially since he was so controlling. You need to live your life the way you want...not the way someone else tells you to.
