It was a pretty good weekend for me. I took the kids golfing (putt putt and driving range) on Sat. W showed up as we were finishing the putt putt and I ordered up some lunch for her and the kids next to the windows at the driving range. I practiced hitting some balls and the kids came out and I helped them hit balls. I looked several times throught the window at W and she was smiling and laughing at me and the kids.
After I had my workout in the afternoon, I stopped at the Big 5 sporting goods to buy some golf balls and ended up buing a set of beginner clubs and bag. I am excited to try doing a full game of golf this spring. At least now I have some more things to practice with besides just an 8 iron and a driver.
I went skiing by myself on Sun at Timberline on Mt Hood. I had not been to that place in a very long time and it has changed a lot. A lot of nice long runs and no lines. I like it and will probably take D5 there next weekend while S7 is in chinese school. When I got home, W was there and saw me in my old fashioned ski outfit (knickers) and had a big smile on her face.
W came by this morning and saw me practicing chip shots in the house and had a big smile on her face. I told her that I was doing some collection of Goodwill items in some bags on behalf of the Cub Scouts and I would like her advise on what we dont need anymore. She wants to help out. As we both left to go to work, she came over to my as I was getting in and we had a big hug.
W has 2 more root canal operations and is totally focused on that now. I have myself into a mode where I am just going to be patient and wait for her to tell me what she wants to do - continue D or try reconcilliation. I talked with her best friend on the drive home from skiing and she is really hoping that W and I get back together. This friend has a lot of influence on W, plus she has seen other couples like us that experienced a rough spot in their M get back together.
