Seriously thanks for the support you have all shown me. I have a lot of hope for my M. Today he said the D document will be ready to be file Thursday. I told him that I thought he'd wait a bit and thought he was rushing the D. He told me he needs to do this for him and that he has some issues to work out and that he wanted to be on his own for a while. He is seeking nothing and giving me everything including 100% custody of D. He said he trusts me that I will never keep his D from him and he wants us to be happy. He isn't cutting me out of his life and he said he isn't looking for anyone to take my place. he wants us to be able to do things with D as a group to be able to be in the same room as each other without fighting. he said he could never hate me and that he cares for me a great deal both because I'm the mother of his child and because we are good friends. He said he feels a D is what is needed for us to find our paths in life and if down the road we want to be together then we'll cancel the D or get married again.
He said he noticed some positive things about me in the last week and he liked who I was. He told me I have many issues to work out about my childhood (mother) and he cannot help me do that.
So I guess I'll keep up doing what I'm doing. I'm a little more confused with the C we had today but I'll push along and keep agreeing with him that a D is a good idea. I'll give him the space to grow and become the man he wants to be.
Jen
Last edited by JenInVen; 02/25/0805:21 PM.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
